Christian Divorce VS Remarriage

  
(Matthew 19:1 KJV)    And it came to pass, that when Jesus had finished these sayings, he departed from Galilee, and came into the coasts of Judaea beyond Jordan;
2  And great multitudes followed him; and he healed them there.
3  The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
4  And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
5  And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
7  They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?
8  He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
10  His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
11  But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
12  For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
 
   

Divorce And Remarriage In The Church

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FIRST ABOUT  The Good and Bad News AS TO WHO IS A CHRISTIAN?   or What Is a True Christian? or Who is a real Christian? The valid definition of a true Christian?  Do see also http://witnessed.wordpress.com/2008/11/16/are-you-a-real-christian-or-a-pretender-imposter-still/
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LETS NOT PRETEND TO BE DUMB AND DENY THAT MANY OF THE SPOUSES EVEN PROFESSING CHRISTIAN ONES AND THEIR LAWYERS, SUPPORTERS THEY DO LIE TO THE COURTS TOO.. DO COMMIT PERJURY TO THE COURTS IN DIVORCE DISPUTES, TOO OFTEN WASTE THE COURT’S TIME  AND TAX PAYER’S MONEY. 
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Most marriages tend to end up in divorce becaue of one spouses inability to forgive, laziness, unrealistic expecations, uncontrolled sexual lust amongst other things.. These days it is very likley that you get divorced as likley as you will get cancer or a heart disease.. and many divorces are ALSO caused even by outside influences.. such by the input of bad persons too… demons such as lawyers, bad judges, relatives and the  bad pastors too..  http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2009/06/11/marriage-breakdown/
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SOME PEOPLE REALLY HATE TO HEAR, READ THE TRUTH FOR IT RIGHTFULLY MAKES THEM FEEL ASHAMED, DISGUSTED WITH THEMSELVES, BAD  PASTORS, COPS, bad spouses  ESPECIALLY..   OSTRICH DENIAL..  http://anyonecare.wordpress.com/2011/10/17/no-abuse-is-acceptable-zero-tolerance/
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While it is true still that many of the  cops, civil and public servants, politicians, divorcees, priests and pastors  included now,  they are still now mostly liars claiming to be REALY now here to serve the good welfare of the people, even are caring about their own  family too, and yet they are rather still mainly building up their own castle, their own welfare, doing their own thing, they took the job mostly to get more wealth, but they will not find a full satisfaction, reward in what they do  rather  they bext  will likely learn is as  per (Proverbs 22:1 KJV)  A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold. (Ecclesiastes 7:1 KJV)  A good name is better than precious ointment; and the Day of death than the day of one’s birth.
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THESE PERVESE PERSONS liars, thieves who are next expecting personally blessings, rewards, regards, honours like Haman in Esther 7:10  instead they are reaping the shame, exposures of their own bad doings.. and do see and the creditor has come..

http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2011/10/12/exemplary-pubic-exposure-and-prosecution-of-the-guilty/

http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2011/10/17/the-continually-bad-rcmp/

http://postedat.wordpress.com/2011/06/14/and-the-creditor-is-come/

http://postedat.wordpress.com/2009/08/31/get-real-now/

http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2009/12/19/a-real-stupid-move-a-liberalized-divorce-solution-still-it-only-seems-like-a-cheap-solution/

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There are much too many even too typical Professing Christians now, Catholics, Anglicans, Pentecostal,  Fundamentals, Plymouth Dispensational Brethren, and whether they are open or closed Brethren, that are deceitful .. for they are also those persons who do  still falsely and too often substitute next their own men ‘s teaching for the Christ’s, and while the one Bible still does opposes divorce for Christian persons, even the Plymouth Brethren undeniably do often even encourage  the divorce of any spouse, Christian or not, who does not heed to the full brethren doctrines, for solely according to them the deceived Christian wife does not need to listen to her husband in anything, even from the same the husband who was to be the head of the home, if he does not jump at their command.. Not only the Brethren, but even bad Fundamental, Pentecostal, bad Baptist pastors also falsely now teach and do this as well all done  to try to maintain a full, crooked control and economic grasp over their religious empire.. The poor wife who is seduced by these bad pastors is surely headed for a very severe downfall next .. http://postedat.wordpress.com/2011/10/03/dispensationalists-plymouth-brethren/ 
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THE SINGLE MOST POPULAR QUESTION ON THE INTERNET GIVEN TO A CHRISTIAN PASTOR OR A PRIEST now is can I get a divorce?
 
The question firstly is not rather what are the main causes of divorces even such as laziness, unrealistic expectations, sexual lusts or lust for more money, materialism.

A DIVORCE TENDS NOT TO BE A NEW HAPPY START ALL OVER AGAIN EXPERIENCE IN FACT and with no negative personal consequences such as health problems and financial losses now too. Also in a divorce you tend to carry the old baggage and scars still with you. The negative reality also now is that a divorce really does not change anything, it does not turn the clock backwards and merely let you start all over again as foolish, immature politicians, others, ostriches rather, would wrongfully let you to believe.

Divorce is also still one of the worst possible way to try to get security and happiness. Falsely even now trying to blame the  spouse for all or most of the marital problems is ludicrous still too. There are still even negative emotional traumas, experiences associated with almost all divorces since you still tend to in real life to reap what you have sown, the personal lies and your acts of thefts included now. You do still have to live with the negative consequences of the divorce and your own major unacceptable personal negative contributions to the divorce and the reasons so many people tend to have more than one divorce next too.

Now if one spouses lies to the other spouse, steals from the other spouse, or  is lazy, unrealistic that marriage will end and they  can blame the other spouse all you want for the failed marriage but they  themselves have made a major contribution by their own bad acts, and Christian or non Christian now as well. It is also amazing how so many spouses can in the courts too see the other spouses supposed sins while they are doing the same thing firstly too.

Mostly the wrong doings, the bad acts that others, even my own family members  have accused me of doing, was mainly, firstly inspired by their own self conciousness of what they themselves were like and they falsely assumed now next that I  was like them. It is a known fact even that crooks often do  think that everyone else is a crook. The liars, slanderers do also  tend to think everyone else lies.. etc.,
Removing the beam from one’s own eye seems to be an impossible task for too many blind still persons..  It seems that too may critics, preachers especially on the internet , falsely still do believe that preaching the Gospel to others, is an acceptable alternative to them  living it now, and they do falsely believe that God overlooks their own sins of the neglect, abuse of others, gossip, slander, cheating, lying, stealing, tax evasions.. Now my son  and daughters and my nieces and nephew all do here  need to stop their lies, slander too as well as other family members. http://postedat.wordpress.com/ and they do also need to be delivered  now from having a demon led controlling spirit.
  
 In a sadly too common, unacceptable divorce scenario, one of the spouse pictures themselves as the innocent party and the other side is painted as a big bad villain.. in reality AS WE ALL CAN READILY KNOW MEN AND WOMEN ARE EQUAL SINNERS FOR A START. Secondly  a wife tends not to file for divorce unless she already has hopes of potential future gains, a present cash reserve, the support of her own family for the divorce, and a pre picked potential future sex partner.  Divorce also clearly is still  not a valid teaching, doctrine of  of the Christian church. When you file for divorce it is very likley cause you are a sex maniac or a control freak.. If you are a Control freak you are not only still an unrealistic, immature, immoral person but you may have a serious mental condition … http://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/07/07/control-freaks/  –
 
There are still much too many persons with a big bad mouth even  in my own related families, who got so used to wagging  their big bad  tongues, telling their lies about others, that next  they had falsely started to think they all can and will get away with it for ever.. dream on.. and they are next shocked when they are rightfully not only rebuked, but  fully exposed to all as to who they are really .. as slanderers, liars and human rights abusers..  and rightfuly so. Clearly now I too got really tired of being lied to and abused by much too many professional bullies, perverts, anyone for that matter  that I encounter too often in life now still, even in society, churches too  so I next started to openly, personally expose them on the net  and to make them reap real personal negative consequences rightfully here too..I

God himself now looks after the good wife, and all of her needs still too but  the husband needs to love her. Those whom I love I also do chasten and rebuke. For  if a wife does evil and not rather good do expect her to reap her consequences..

I have a great chuckle when a clearly  dumb spouse like mine counts on getting rich after a divorce.. dream on.. Imagine this too many people falsely do  love the prosperity preachers who promise them wealth but neglect to tell them to repent firstly, continually as well. And that still includes  the persons who does evil to me, lies  to me, slanders me, even if it is my wife, my son Edward or my daughters, or my nieces or nephew, as they also do  evil very likely as well to others… they still do need to repent themselves, for they will not prosper..
 
Imagine this even in a so called Christian Church a lazy, no good, rebellious, actually a slut, adulterous, unfaithful  wife OFTEN STILL now files for a divorce, and still demands alimony but she also  often even gets her church support in this matter claiming the Bible says the husband is to be the sole bread winner and too look after his wife.  Well I got GOOD news for you all FOR there is no such verse in the Bible and the same PERVERTED church that says so, let them now  support the wife next.. for the Bible is clear a wife is an equal marriage partner, who now also works even supporting her family .. (Prov 31:10 KJV)  Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies…. 13  She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.

 30 percent of the evangelical Christians in today’s modern, liberalized Churches now falsely file for divorce even because they are not really true, practicing Christians but imposters, pretenders.  I was also recently amazed at the  local PAOC, Pentecostal church that hypocritically permitted divorce, that God hates, but the same Church  enforces Old Testament mandatory tithing.. doing whatever it takes to keep the  religious empire going.. To continue going to this watered down church I next would have to betray many of my valid Christian beliefs, doctrines too.  http://pbulow.tripod.com/tithing.html

Of the thousands of post that I  have made on the net over the last decades too this one on marriage  is the most popular too. 

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 (Gal 5:19 KJV)  Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, 20   Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, 21   Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.  (Col 3:5 KJV)  Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: 6   For which things’ sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:
(Mark 10:29 KJV)  And Jesus answered and said, Verily I say unto you, There is no man that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my sake, and the gospel’s, 30 But he shall receive an hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life.
Here is a quick Bible study for you folks.. notice above that wife is singular, and Jesus himself does not promise to replace your old wife with a new wife..  
   
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 Imagine this in America even in a so called Christian Church a lazy, no good, rebellious, actually a slut, adulterous, unfaithfull  wife OFTEN STILL now files for a (economic)  divorce, and she still demands a big alimony but she also  often even gets her own friends, family, church support in this matter cwhile laiming the Bible says the husband is to be the sole bread winner and he is to to  look after his wife economically.
Well I got GOOD news for you all FOR there is no such verse in the Bible and the same PERVERTED church that says so, let them now  support the wife next..  for the Bible is clear a wife is an equal marriage partner, who now also works even supporting her family .. see (Prov 31:10 KJV)  Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies…. 13  She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
God looks after the good wife, and all of her needs still too but  the husband loves her. But if a wife does evil and not rather good do expect her to reap her negative consequences..
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Generally these days it is the wife who wrongfully files for divorce, and  before that it used to be the men.
These days the too often dirty lawyers who make blood money from divorce, are wolves in sheep clothing now picturing themselves and  the spouse to the courts, as good persons, decent, honest, reliable, falsely claiming her now to be a totally good , honest person, and not another too typical  liar too.
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DIVORCE MOSTLY IS CAUSED BY SELFISHNESS, LAZINESS OR UNCONTROLLED SEXUAL LUSTS,  UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS
Hey I expect to be hated for telling the truth here too, most people hate to hear the truth about themselves, for they are in denial, such as the bad wife bashing her husband who still cannot see she firstly likley is doing the things she accuses him of doing in reality http://postedat.wordpress.com/2009/08/31/get-real-now/
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Can people now still next  change on their own for the Better, very unlikely without  God’s direct input. Most people have to learn the realy hard way.
The divorce  lawyers who tend to be too often liars themselves they do like to present the victimzed, innocent female spouse before the Queen’s courts, before the supposedly reputable judge, who in my witness, experiences actual too often is also now a liar, pretender himself, even a person  who does not get off the bench cause he is too lazy to ascertain the truth of the facts being presented to him or her. Wifes and lawyers often perjure themselves succesfully to the courts still while the too often pretending judge pretends to mediate, deal with the matters before him. It always amazed me the so called perfect wife, actually an economic and physical prostitute and her perverse lawyers, can so easily see all of the spouses’ sins still cannot even see their own,, and why was that? the devil still controls what they do and can see..  The Bible also lists this sin of lying as one that can lead us to hell along with some other grievous ones. (Rev 21:7 KJV)  He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son. (Rev 21:8 KJV)  But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.  http://anyonecare.wordpress.com/2009/03/06/people-need-to-stop-lying-to-others-themselves/  http://postedat.wordpress.com/2009/12/01/everyones-does-it-the-liars-now-too/
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The often lying lawyers like to present the wife as a decent, respected, good, moral person who now has provided faithfully  for her husband, even if she did not, and she does not abuse now again  any of them not even her now really bad  husband, and she does not cheat, lie or steal now as well. Ha ha ha  Most of you already do know that is not true.. she does many bad things.. The still mostly  liars . lawyers do like to present her as a good person, whereas more likely in reality  she also is just  another demon. In fact men and women tend to be equal sinners, before God and man. In reality  the same spouse she likely has slandered, lied, committed adultery, even stole from her spouse, and now she will keep on lying, perjuring herself while hoping next to get a good alimony support from her spouse.  The farce goes on. When now the Christians behave like this it is unacceptable..  really bad..
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ACTUALLY WE ALL KNOW THE CHRISTIAN SPOUSE FIRSTLY HAD LIED AT THE WEDDING ALTAR WHEN HE OR SHE HAD LIED AND SAID THEIR  MARRIAGE WAS TILL DEATH.
LYING HAS BECOME SUCH A COMMON SIN, FEW PERSONS THESE DAYS DO THINK TWICE ABOUT DOING IT. PROFESSING EVEN CHRISTIAN SPOUSES LIE, LAWYERS LIE, AND JUDGES WRONGFULLY GO ALONG WITH IT ALSO. SO WHERE IS THERE ANY REAL, HONEST JUSTICE IN ALL OF THIS? NONE, NONE OF THIS IS ACCEPTABLE STILL TOO! NONE OF IT.
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Many a person  when they see these people divorcing they really tend next not to recognize them and their behavior, for it clearly is different from what they had known before, were used too in fact.  
All of a sudden clearly new now  openly monsters here have arisen.
In reality  the wife is not the mostly   innocent, the sole injured party and the husband is not the sole bad guy, villain too.
All of these mostly immoral,  lying now people, spouses, laywers, judges tend to first need decent, real, pastoral counseling themselves.
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Face IT the single biggest cause of depression basically is your own doings and not just a bad marriage.. But don’t expect any marriage to make you happier over having a personal relationship with God still or the new or old marriage to be a false substitute for having a personal relationship with God. I have been recently counseling a person who desperately wants to be remarried, she has been twice married, but she is not interesting in following after God only after her own desires, lusts.. so no marriage for her will make her happy or replace God’s vacuum in her life still too. God has not promised you now even a right of remarriage.. but he promised you peace, joy and happiness and yes you can have that outside of marriage with Jesus..
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Mothers who refuse to let separated fathers see their children should have them taken away, a senior family court judge said yesterday. The children should be handed over to the full time care of the father if the mother persistently defies court orders, Mr Justice Coleridge said.He called for a ‘three strikes and you’re out rule’ by which children would be taken away if mothers ignored three court orders.The judge said that family courts are losing their authority because so many people take no notice of their judgments http://mamaliberty.wordpress.com/2010/11/28/dung/
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Don’t by any means get the impression I think that  most of the judges are decent, nice persons, since I have met, encountered too many crooked judges. lawyers and politicians, the basis of most of our judges now too. I think one reasons there are so many bad, useless judges is they refuse to get out of their seats and look at all the facts, not the too often lies presented by the lawyers.
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When we’re in a Domestically Abusive relationship we often create temporary “noise.” What you should be doing is calling the cops louldy instead. No abuse is acceptable, not verbal, emotional or phyisical too.. left alone abuses tend to be escalted..
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ONE OF THE MOST COMMON, POPULAR TOPICS, SEARCHES ON THE INTERNET is can a Christian next get divorced and remarried, and the simple answer is no! but wait  do not stop reading yet.. if you are married, living to a demon, a control freak, a liar, a lazy good for nothing abusive person then please now do immediately get out of the marriage, do get an immediate separation.. and this not the kind of advice you would expect from a preacher of peace and love, but I am telling you all this for our own good, and you can thank me later.. and maybe next the still good for nothing bum, lousy spouse, he or she will wake up as to what she is really like and they may try to get help to change herself, himself.. but meanwhile don’t feel guilty about the peace you now have in your life.. By the way make sure first you are not the creepy, a good for nothing spouse yourself otherwise by your actions you will be doing your own spouse a great, great service.
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More about Control freaks. Fears too. Control freaks do often have a terrible personal, social  life too and do often make all life terrible for those they live with, marry, work with, come in contact withhttp://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2009/07/21/hated/
Christian Lies, Slanders, Divorce And/or  Christian Divorce  Remarriage, (as well as adultery, fornication , Alcoholism, drugs, smoking, gays)  in the Christian Church are ALL still unacceptable.
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When And Why Marriage Came About

It was in the Garden of Eden that marriage began between God’s created beings, man and woman. Man as in mankind, didn’t come up with the brilliant idea, “hey, let’s go get married.” No, marriage was God’s idea and it was for a godly reason, which is therefore why it is a law. Marriage is a law because it refers to the command by God Almighty for a man and a woman to be fruitful and multiply. God chose not to create bunches of people at the same time, but He created Adam and Eve, and He opted to make this one couple to …Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth…(Genesis 1:28), and of course this was with His blessing. Man and woman were created for companionship and blessed in marriage union as “one” for procreating godly seeds. And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed [children]… (Malachi 2:15). The law of marriage is a covenant or agreement/vows between a man, a woman, and God their creator. What makes this agreement between the man and the woman binding, is the seal placed upon it, and that seal being God Almighty, in which case the third party witness and the only witness to what is in their hearts.

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Question:  What is meant by God being the seal placed upon the union between a man and a woman? Answer:  God has made an end to two individual lives and has now made the man and woman, through agreement/vows, a one-flesh entity. God no longer sees them as twain (two), but as one. Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, for this cause [marriage] shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave [cling] to his wife: and they twain [two] shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder (Matthew 19:4-6; Genesis 2:24). The presence of God Almighty as the Third Party witness in a marriage covenant makes it a lifetime, unconditional commitment between the man and the woman. Because marriage is a lifetime commitment, vows are necessary and must be fulfilled. Marriage Is Vowing And God Is A Witness Wedding vows or promises are most serious. On account of them being made before God, they are as serious as the breath of life itself. Serious because you are promising to God to love and honor your mate until forever and forever regardless of one day awakening to find that the Devil has put in your heart that you two should not be together. The “if and then” clause is characteristic of a vow. If one party will do a particular thing, then the other party will respond to that by doing a particular thing in return. This is what marriage vows are all about – they are conditional or dependent on actions. Some good examples of vows are Jacob (Genesis 28:20-22), Israel (Numbers 21:2-3), Jephthah (Judges 11:30), and I Samuel 1:11 (Hannah). When one makes a vow/promise, he or she binds their soul with a bond (Numbers 30), and is not to break his or her promise. The meaning of a vow still stands, and making a vow is humbling because one has to live up to what has been promised by him or her. To bind yourself with a bond in vowing, in the case of marriage, is to be under obligation to God and the mate you are now “knit together” with to perform all that you promised. (Bond means obligation and bind is to knit together with your mate in marriage.) When thou shalt vow a vow unto the Lord thy God, thou shalt not slack to pay it [you must not breach your promises]: for the Lord thy God will surely require [demand] it of thee; and it would be sin in thee [if you don’t keep your word] (Deuteronomy 23:21). You have vowed to God and your mate to remain until the death of either of you, and if you don’t live up to it or if you are “slack to pay it” as God demands, you are in sin. Saints, when you break your vows/promises by divorcing your mate for other than fornication/sexual sin, you sin. You sin because you chose to be married. God never said, “all must make vows.” God ordained the act of marriage for all to see and as free moral agents, to make the choice to be married or remain single. When you made the choice to be married, you said you were willing to perform the expected behavior required of you in carrying out the marriage vows. God did not make you commit to getting married. It is written that if thou shalt forebear [say no] to vow, it shall be no sin in thee (Deuteronomy 23:22). It is not a sin to be unmarried. The Word of God goes on to say to those who make vows, such as wedding vows, That which is gone out of thy lips [when you verbally committed/vowed] thou shalt keep and perform… (Deuteronomy 23:23). You must carry out your wedding vows or else you are in sin because you have attempted through divorce to undo the miracle of one-flesh entity that God performed at your ceremony. Because the Lord hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth…the wife of thy covenant (Malachi 2:14). You so-called Christians, God was a witness between you and your mate – the mate of your covenant – the mate you promised to be with until death separated you. Don’t you respect God’s Word and promises with regard to your marriage vows? God hates covenant-breakers, therefore He hates divorce, and He says so in the Old Testament. Don’t attempt to ignore what is written there because it still holds. It wasn’t nailed to the cross with Jesus as were the carnal ordinances of the Law of Moses. God made you and your mate one and hates it when you break up the union. For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away (divorce)… (Malachi 2:16).

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Troubled Marriage A marriage is troubled because one or both (usually one) in the marriage has allowed Satan to (1) work on his or her mind, and (2) after much thinking, allowed those thoughts to move to the heart and work there for the committing of the sin of divorce. Saints, SIN is the root cause of divorce. It’s not always sexual sin, but it’s sin nonetheless. I don’t care how you look at your reasons for wanting to divorce your mate (other than fornication), SIN is the root cause for divorce. You can dress divorce with all the reasons in the world for it coming to pass, divorce is still wearing the garment of SIN. The proper attire for divorce is something or someone else is more important that keeping marriage vows to God and your mate. You leaders in The Church that are initiating divorce from your mate, but encouraging the mate to file for the divorce since it wouldn’t look right for your to do so, fearing it would hurt the ministry, don’t kid yourself. The ministry was hurt when you let the notion to divorce go from your mind to your heart resulting in you acting on that which was in your heart. In fact, the ministry was hurt long before that. Your relationship with The Lord cooled down as your flesh became more, and more demanding, and pride took precedence. The marriage is troubled because the flesh of one mate wants what is most pleasing to his or her fleshly appetite. Yes, fleshly appetite because it sure isn’t “spirit.” Remember, the spirit is always willing to do God’s will, but the flesh isn’t. The flesh is weak and is always resistant to God’s will by fighting the spirit to get the right-of-way. The flesh is the working of Satan against God’s will for when it comes to putting asunder the marriage of a man and a woman – divorce. You who have divorced your mate for reasons other than fornication, you chose the easy way out – the fleshly way – the sinful way. For divorce brings about confusion and God is not the author of that. Therefore you know you have violated God’s will for your life because you didn’t put God and your mate before what “self” wanted. Grounds For Divorce God has said that what He joins together in a one-flesh entity, let no man put asunder or separate them (Matthew 19:6).

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Marriage before God is indissoluble because something miraculous has taken place there – the man and woman have become as one. It applies if you were married before a minister or before a Justice of the Peace as well. God is still in it because it is He who performs the miracle of one-flesh entity. It is He who is the seal on the relationship. It is He who performs the procreation miracle of children from the union. Marriage is holy! Saints, making marriage vows is very, very serious. That cannot be stressed enough. You just do not break vows made to God and your mate, for God expects you to keep your word. If your word means nothing, then you are a liar and cannot be trusted. (Why would God trust you with a ministry?) As was said before, vows are voluntary. You choose to make vows. However, once you make the marriage vows or any other solemn promise, and especially before God, your keeping those vows is compulsory. That’s why marriage is indissoluble. If a man [mankind] vow a vow unto the Lord, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth (Numbers 30:2). When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed [keep your promises]. Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay (Ecclesiastes 5:4-5). Remember the immutability of God. Yes, this is in the Old Testament as well, but it wasn’t nailed to the cross. This still stands. You may have changed, but God is still the same – no change in His Word. You so-called Born Again Christians that have or are contemplating divorcing your mate for reasons such as irreconcilable differences, impotency, abandonment, spousal abuse, life in danger, insanity, drug addiction, alcohol addiction, barrenness, or any and all reasons other than fornication, YOU ARE IN SIN. Grounds other than fornication don’t stand with God. Those other grounds – well – that’s where your faith should kick in. You are to cry out to God for change in both you and your mate. In the spirit realm, you are to fight for your mate’s deliverance from those demon spirits of alcohol and drugs. Those are spirits that have these people bounded. In the spirit, you are to fight for your mate’s deliverance from abuse and insanity.

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Pray and believe God for deliverance from impotency and barrenness – believe God for fertility and wait on Him while you live a life of holiness and righteousness. It’s a demonic spirit behind everything that is not like God, including a brutal stalking mate. Bind that spirit up in the name of Jesus and remain in prayer for God to deliver that person and turn his or her life around. “The ball is in your court.” No, the work is too hard and you’d rather take the quick and easy way out – DIVORCE. Hello! God is not buying that from you. The quick and easy way out is SIN – “death.”

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The Biblical reason of fornication or sex outside of marriage being the only justification for divorce is because extramarital affairs weaken or threaten the foundation of family life. When you have sex with someone other than your mate your soul is knitted to that person while you have already been knitted to your mate. Looks like polygamy, doesn’t it? The man for instance, married/knitted with his wife’s soul and now knitted as well with a strange woman. Ugh! Nasty! Not only is disloyalty there, but it’s whoredom and whoredom brings about confusion. The unfaithful mate is confused about who he or she really wants to be knitted to, and the author of confusion is none other than Satan, and out of that confusion comes guilt and unhappiness. The aftereffect of it all is the weakening of the family organization that God established for the replenishing of the earth – family failure. That’s not God’s handiwork. It must be said that even if your mate is a fornicator or adulterer, you should leave room for forgiveness. Look at the number of times God forgave Israel, His wife, for adultery before He sent Israel into Diaspora with partial blindness. By forgiving your mate for that sin, as with God, it does not mean you condone it, but the person is given the opportunity to truly repent – that is, be sorry, not do it again, and start over. Starting over does not mean with a new man or woman in your life, for that is continued adultery.

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Remember when Jesus met the Samaritan woman at Jacob’s well and He spoke to her about drinking water after which she would never thirst again. She asked Jesus for it, and He replied Go, call thy husband, and come hither. The woman answered and said, I have no husband. Jesus said unto her, Thou hast well said, I have no husband: For thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband: in that saidst thou truly (Matthew 4:16-18). She was to go and sin no more as Jesus told the woman caught in adultery in John 8:11. If you left your mate and took on another, God forgives you if you are truly repentant, but part of the repentance package is giving up or coming out of that adulterous marriage and living a life of celibacy if you reject healing and restoration with the previous mate. go, and sin no more (John 8:11). This isn’t saying God will make holy your adulterous marriage, but He is saying, “I don’t condemn you, but don’t do this again.” He is saying, “Stop! Come out of this relationship because this is not your mate. This isn’t the one I joined you with.” Remember, if you don’t want your marriage to be restored, you must live a celibate life until Jesus comes or your first mate dies. The idea of celibacy may be hard for some of you, but even Kathryn Kuhlman realized she had to come out of the marriage she was in. The man divorced his wife and children to marry Kathryn. It must be done the way she did it. (Note: I respect her for having done that, ) The adultery madness has to stop somewhere. You are not happy in that state with the new mate. When you deal treacherously (unfaithfully) with your original mate, you are not happy. If you say you are happy, you’re telling a lie, for God will not allow you to be happy after you have broken your marriage vows. Matthew 19:3-12 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain [two], but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder (Matthew 19:3-6). A person must not break in two the bond of oneness between self and mate because God has performed a miracle that cannot be reversed for reasons other than fornication. When God performs the miracle, it is not to be meddled with by mankind. That’s why He says, “let no man put asunder.” So, when one divorces his or her mate on grounds other than fornication, that person is attempting to undo a miracle performed by God Almighty. Who are you, you miserable character? They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so (Matthew 19:7-8; Mark 10:4-9).

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Back in Genesis when God instituted marriage, He never intended for divorce to take place. In Moses law, divorce was permitted, but Moses’ law did not prevail over God’s original intent for marriage to be forever. Remember, Moses’ law was placed on the outside of the Ark which meant it could be changed, and did indeed have changes made to it. God’s Law was placed on the inside of the Ark and could not be changed. No, “Thou shalt not commit adultery” was not eradicated or changed in any way. (For a better understanding of the law, go to Are You Really Not Under The Law?) In the beginning God married one man to one woman and that was that. Now you are probably thinking that because God didn’t strike dead the men of old for their quick and easy divorces and the polygamous households that God simply accepted those practices. You are also probably thinking that if I divorce my mate and remarry, God will forgive me and I can go on in this new marriage with this new person. Well, that just isn’t so, especially since Jesus came and showed us all that we can, and must live, holy and obedient lives before The Lord God Almighty. God, in this dispensation, would not even wink at Jacob having his many wives and concubines let alone you. Those days are long gone. In this dispensation even, God would not wink at King David’s affair and murder to cover up his sin of fornication. God hasn’t winked His eye at sin since Jesus Christ came to tell the truth to all people, and God isn’t winking his eye at your sin of divorcing and remarrying as Born Again Christians in The Church of Jesus Christ. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication [sex with one other than your mate], and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb [underdeveloped]: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men [castrated]: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake [chosen to abstain from sex]. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it (Matthew 19:9-12 and Luke 16:18). I rather think eunuch here is in reference to sex organs, and this is why: The word eunuch is believed to have come from the Assyrian language meaning one who could be trusted, but the Hebrew word for eunuch (caric) means to castrate. Our Lord had to have meant eunuch from the position of sex organs and not that of one employed because he could be trusted. How could one be born as “one who could be trusted”? Notwithstanding, one could be born without fully developed genitalia.

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Understand that (1) if you divorce your wife or husband, it is only acceptable before God on the grounds of fornication. (2) Divorce is not considered adultery just because you divorce your mate. Divorce is adultery when (a) you who divorced your mate go and marry someone else; and/or (b) you who divorced your mate does not marry, but the mate you divorced remarries whereby that remarried mate and their new spouse are committing adultery and it’s all because of you who initiated the divorce in the first place. Adultery is singled out in the 7th Commandment which is on the fleshly table of your heart – Thou shalt not commit adultery (Exodus 20:14). This is serious. Saints, when you divorce a mate for reasons other than fornication (1) you must remain single, which means sex is over with for you because there is no sex outside of marriage – that’s sin; or (2) go back to your mate that you divorced. Marriage is serious business. But, the Word of The Lord to you (both male and female) who divorce on grounds other than fornication, you must become eunuchoid or one abstaining from sex and marriage, unless the other mate dies. It is not physical castration, but it is sexual abstinence. The Word of The Lord to you is, make yourself a eunuch by abstaining from sex for the Kingdom of Heaven’s sake, and for the sake of your salvation. As a eunuch you will better serve in the Kingdom of Heaven because you will not have to be concerned about pleasing your mate. Personally, I love being a eunuch and I have been one since August 1983 (currently 2000). August 1983 was when the man whom I thought I was going to be with “until death we parted” walked out on three children and I – never to return. At that time, I wasn’t “Born Again” but yet I knew that though still married to the man, I could not date, let alone sleep with a man, because I would have been a fornicator. So, my prayer to God, with my Catholic mind, was, “Lord, please don’t let me commit adultery” and He kept me from any thought of doing such even until this day. God began changing my life and brought me through every step of the way. Even though I prayed for my marriage to be restored, I learned that God was never ever going to override that man’s will and force him back home, but He instead blessed me to fall madly in love with Him and the work He called me to do, thus keeping my mind and heart on the kingdom. To this day I do not think about the ex-husband nor do I think about being married to anyone else. I don’t even reminisce about so-called “good old days” and I have God to thank for that. I love being a eunuch – abstaining from sex, and it’s easy when you have a real relationship with The Lord. The other things just don’t matter. What God has done for me, He wants to do for all of you who didn’t keep the marriage covenant and are not in another marriage as an adulterer. The Lord said, All men [mankind] cannot receive this saying [being a eunuch], save they to whom it is given (Matthew 19:11). The word given, meaning “presented” to you as an option when you break the marriage vows by divorcing your mate for reasons other than fornication. It’s been given to you but do you receive it?

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What It Means To break Marriage Vows. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously (unfaithful) against the wife of his youth. For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away (divorce): for one covereth violence (maltreatment; wrong) with his garment (Hebrew word “bagad” meaning deceitful or unfaithful), saith the Lord of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously (Malachi 2:15-16). “You covereth violence with your garment” means you have wronged your mate by being unfaithful in keeping your marriage vows. To break your marriage vows is being unfaithful to God and your mate. You betrayed their trust in your words and your actions. You are a “liar” and you can’t be trusted. Not only did you lie to God Almighty, but also to your mate. Because you lied, you are not happy and will not be happy until you have personally made amends with God and your mate. The Word of God says, …he that speaketh lies shall not escape (Proverb 19:5). You will not have peace in your soul for breaking your promises to The Lord and your mate. It will not be life as usual until you come face-to-face with both the direct and indirect painful results you are responsible for. 1.  You lied about reverencing God’s presence and His seal at the marriage ceremony. 2. You lied about not violating your solemn vows before God because you didn’t trust God to keep His part of the agreement – keeping the marriage together. All you cared about was “self” and how “self” felt, so you therefore didn’t believe God to bless the marriage, grant you fulfillment in it, and bless your home with peace. YOU THOUGHT THE GRASS WAS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. 3.  You lied about loving your mate, comforting, and honoring your mate in sickness and in health. 4.  You lied to God about forsaking all others of the opposite sex and keeping to the mate that He was a witness to your union within one flesh for as long as you live. You lied! You lied to God. You thought the grass was greener on the other side. You lied! You only cared about how you felt, and not God nor anybody else. 5. You lied to God and your mate when you said you wanted your mate to be wedded to you – to have and to hold from that day forward for better for worse, for richer for poor, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish “till death do you part” according to God’s holy ordinance. You lied! You lied to God. You thought the grass was greener on the other side, but let me tell you, it has to be mowed over there as well. When one makes a vow unto God as in marriage vows, and he or she keeps their part of the promises, God will make sure that the couple stays together. You have to love God more than anything to want to keep your promises to Him and your mate, otherwise you will divorce. You will sin and risk going to hell. Yes, going to hell because you broke the 7th Commandment of God’s High Holy Standard for mankind by breaking your marriage vows.

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The Sorrow In Those Second And Subsequent Adulterous Marriages The blessing of the Lord, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it (Proverb 10:22). Sorrow is grief, anguish, pain, remorse, misery, sadness, difficulty, distress, and some. I don’t care how much and how hard you try to make these adulterous marriages work by believing continually that God has forgiven you and has blessed the marriage, sorrow is added to it. I don’t care how determined you are to stick with this mate and the children you possibly have from the marriage, sorrow is added to it. There is much sorrow in these adulterous marriages because you sinned by breaking your marriage vows before The Lord and your mate. You disobeyed God’s commandment to not commit adultery when you became the power to put asunder your mate; you became the power that unraveled the miracle of one-flesh entity that God performed between you and your mate. You made yourself “the power” in God’s place. That’s called pride. It was pride that got Lucifer in trouble and it’s that same pride that has you in trouble until you rectify this whole mess. There is much sorrow in these adulterous marriages but you think it will gradually dissipate. No, you’re dead wrong. God has not, cannot, and will not bless these relationships as long as your divorced mate is alive. These unsanctioned marriages will never be placid, and the more you attempt to draw closer to God for a settled peace, you will not be able to until you come out of the relationship. It is when your desires line up with God’s will that you will experience peace. Worse than that, the longer you are not in one accord with God’s will, you’re just a “faking and shaking” Christian who is on the way to hell. No, it’s not “once saved-always saved.” It’s do it God’s way or burn later. You must make the choice. The Hebrews made the choice when leaving Babylon – they made the choice to give up those mates and children because it was God’s will (Ezra 10), and you have to make the choice.

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Kathryn Kuhlman’s Adulterous Marriage Kathryn Kuhlman was in an adulterous marriage and the guilt of it was heavy upon her. While already an evangelist, she met another evangelist who had a wife and two sons. Apparently they had something going on and he divorced his wife to marry Kathryn. He lied and said that his wife abandoned him by going back to Austin for the children to attend school. Like it was said before, God knows the whole truth whereas ordinary people don’t always know the whole truth. The people in Denver where Kathryn was preaching begged her not to marry the man because of what he had done, and she married him anyway. In those days (1930s and 40s) the people would not sit under your ministry if you had committed adultery by divorcing your mate or marrying someone who was divorced, and they were absolutely right. As a result, word got around and when she and the hubby went to the various churches, they weren’t welcomed so their ministry was going down. Kathryn tried preaching without the husband, but word still traveled and she wasn’t welcomed. Kathryn knew, from her study of the Word of God and her experience with Him as a loving Father, that God was able to take even an impossible marriage situation, one that was born in sin and rebellion [excluding adultery/divorce], and turn it into something pure and holy – without dissolving the relationship…She had seen others do exactly what she and Burroughs [husband, Burroughs Waltrip] had done, and watched as God heard their cry of confession and their plea for forgiveness, and had granted them new hearts along with His allowance for them to remain together. (Daughter of Destiny. Jamie Buckingham. Logos International, Plainfield, NJ p 90, 1976.) This was precisely what Kathryn and Burroughs were believing God for, so they kept trying to make it work for six years, but the sorrow mounted. Finally she repented – as to completely turn around, and left the marriage. It was difficult for her as it was for the Hebrews in Ezra 10, and as it will be difficult for you. But, if you’re going to call yourself a child of God, a Saint, you’ve got to do what you’ve got to do and God will bring you through just like He wanted to bring you through a successful marriage before you divorced your mate or committed fornication and became divorced. In the book, “Daughter of Destiny,”

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Burroughs Waltrip was referred to as “a man of God” but I beg to differ with you. A man of God is one who walks with God. Walking with God is walking upright before Him in righteousness and holiness, not in adultery – not as a liar. (Bishop Clarence McClendon also refers to himself as a man of God, but yet an adulterer.) These six things doth the Lord hate; yea, seven are an abomination unto him…a lying tongue (Proverb 6:16-17). When you commit adultery by divorcing your mate, you brake your word to God and your mate thus making you a liar. You’re slowly but surely destroying yourself. When you commit adultery through divorce you are destroying your soul (Proverb 6:32), and as long as you stay in those adulterous relationships you are steadily destroying your soul because of the continuous sin. That sin doesn’t go away until you get out of it. It does not go away as long as you are in a soul-tie situation.

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Peep Into Who You’ve Been Supporting John Jacobs: His so-called ministry was hurt from its inception when he incorporated martial arts into Christianity. He was headed downward beginning with that. John divorced his wife of 16 years, Ruthanne due to irreconcilable differences. She, however, did not want the divorce. Let’s see now, where is that in The Bible? I don’t see it. (That was very familiar. The same grounds charged by the man I was married to.) What does that mean? It means there is a conflict in what the couple believes in or stand for and they just cannot come into one accord, therefore are not capable of being reconciled – inharmonious. Ruthanne was not guilty of fornication (neither was I), but according to John, the irreconcilable differences went back to the beginning of the marriage. Where was Jesus in the individual lives for 16 years? Without a doubt, John obviously did not have a real or genuine relationship with The Lord that he broke the marriage vows that God miraculously sealed. This is what John had to say: There was nothing about this divorce that had to do with a sin problem. Divorce was my last choice. (Charisma News Service, August 25, 2000) John, my dear man, divorce may have been your last choice, but it was that choice that made your action SIN. The Jacobs had adopted a little boy who is now three years old. If the real reason for the divorce was due to impotency or barrenness, that was still no grounds for divorce. Abraham didn’t leave Sarah and God blessed that marriage. The article went on to say that Jacobs had ‘been wounded by divorce, but…returned to his calling.’ Who called him? It sure wasn’t God.

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Bishop Clarence McClendon: The Bishop – a Born Again Christian and a minister of the Gospel, in this year 2000, divorced his wife and four children of 16 years. He said, the only reason [it/marriage] lasted as long as it did was because we both loved God (Charisma News Service, Vol. 2, No. 89, July 5,2000). Church, Clarence McClendon shot himself in the foot with that statement – “they both loved God.” Isn’t that what a married couple is suppose to do? If he and his wife both loved God, they would have loved each other and would still be together. Since they are not together, one of them, and it was Clarence McClendon, didn’t love God like he thought he did. He loved “self” above God. He loved what pleased him and made him feel good above God. You see Saints, if Clarence McClendon had loved God, he would still be keeping his marriage vows to Tammera and God, The Seal – the Third Party in the agreement, would have kept them together as His part of the agreement. Bear in mind, God would never override Clarence McClendon’s will to divorce his wife for reasons other than fornication. His so-called ministry was hurt when he began to exhibit himself as “Mister-I-Have-Arrived,” and taking up a second collection during church services just for him. By the way, it was this same fellow who is so special in The Kingdom that while he was yet married to Tammera, he was silly enough to tell her that God had shown him who he was suppose to marry (Charisma News Service, Vol. 2, No. 133,

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“Ex-Wife of L.A. Pastor Clarence McClendon Disputes Divorce Account.” September 7, 2000). Clarence McClendon, you were duped by the working of Satan in your flesh. If you had had a real relationship with God, you would have immediately allowed His Word to rise up in you telling you that He hates divorce, adultery, sin, and pride in a person. (Note: After all of that, those churchgoers are still sitting under that adulterous man! God forbid!) Oh, and by the way, he married the woman Priscilla Delgado seven days after his divorce was finalized. Tell me now if McClendon was not already in an adulterous relationship with Priscilla Delgado while married to Tammera. (The Charisma article noted McClendon was accused of adultery and also of having fathered a child by a woman other than his wife.) This ministry of the Bishop’s was in a lot of trouble before he convinced his wife to file so that it wouldn’t look bad for him and the ministry. This Clarence McClendon is also a liar. He said that Tammy just made a decision about what she wanted to do with the rest of her life. No, sir. According to the Charisma report that quoted Tammy, you, Clarence McClendon, made the decision for her. She did not want the divorce even though he had been wanting to leave her for five years. Bishop McClendon said the following about the rumors of his fidelity: It is the work of the enemy to silence the prophetic voice…I’m a holy man of God. I’ve lived my life by the Word of God (Charisma Magazine, August 2000). A holy man of God living by God’s Word! Please! To cast your eyes upon this man you see the puffed-up arrogant specimen of a male whose mannerisms are those of one who thinks he’s “the fairest of them all” – “STUCK ON ‘SELF.’” The so-called holy man of God said, I have a calling to preach, not to be married. Imagine that? That being the case, why did he immediately after the divorce get married to Priscilla? He further stated, My calling is between my heavenly Father and myself. It doesn’t affect my ministry. Dear man, you’re a liar. You don’t have a heavenly Father that you reverence. If you had, you wouldn’t be an adulterer in an adulterous, unsanctioned-by-God marriage. Yes, you’re absolutely correct – your divorce and remarriage doesn’t affect your ministry because that preaching you’re doing in that building is not The True Church of Jesus Christ. So, no, you’re not affected.

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Richard Roberts: His so-called ministry was hurt when he teamed up with his dad, Oral, and put his dad before his wife Patty. Yes, his one-flesh entity was with his dad and not his first wife, Patti. Richard’s so-called ministry was hurt when he supported his dad’s worldly-wise fundraising schemes to build up the Oral Roberts University and that medical center, which by the way, flopped. It flopped because God wasn’t in that. Seed-faith offering was and still is one of their biggest fundraising schemes, which Patti spoke against – and she was absolutely right. Giving out of your need is not the same as giving out of your love and obedience to God. Giving out of your need is turning God into a “Sugar Daddy” that will drop anything you want on you anytime you want, and people don’t manipulate God. Seed-faith offering is manipulative and that is not Scriptural. Oral said to Patti, Patti, why don’t the two of you just get a divorce? I’ll just tell my partners you couldn’t make it, and we’ll let the chips fall where they may… (Ashes to God. Patti Roberts. Word Books Publisher, Waco, TX p 129, 1983.) Where was God in this “godly man Oral Roberts”? Sure enough Oral, wife Evelyn, and son Richard went on a fishing trip and upon return the decision had been made for Richard and Patti to divorce. Of course Patti didn’t want this and probably neither did Richard, but because his dad and that ministry were more important than him pulling out of Tulsa with his wife Patti and two children to start anew, he gave in to what pleased his dad. Didn’t the Word say, leave father and mother? Yea, I thought so, but Richard Roberts ignored The Word of God. In fact, he left God out of the marriage. This was another one of those cases where the wife was urged to get the divorce because it would look bad for Richard and the ministry, which she did do. Well, Church, 10 months latter Richard married Lindsey and they started a new family – an adulterous one that is. God only knows, Richard, if you had remained with Patti, perhaps your posterity would not have been cut off.

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  John Hagee: This man is a very popular preacher in the world of Charismatics. He and his current wife Diana, pastor a very large church in San Antonio. Before now, he was pastoring a church in San Antonio and admittedly was in immorality. He divorced his wife Martha and two children in 1976 and married Diana Castro, a young woman in his congregation, and started a new family. Mr. Hagee seems to be happy, but is he? His church is a big one, but does that mean God is there? He’s written or rather had ghostwritten, many books, but does that mean he is anointed by God to do so? Is John Hagee’s life and ministry kosher with God?   One day I happened to tune in to John Hagee’s program and he was teaching on love. My heart was stricken when I heard this adulterer say such things as: Marriage is an attempt to find love. Love makes a covenant in marriage. (Oh, really, now! What do you know about that?) Love is loyal. If you want to do something for someone, love someone. (Unbelievable!) If you want to do something for God, either come from behind the pulpit while in your adulterous state, or give up that unsanctioned adulterous marriage and family?

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Arthur Blessitt: This man has been carrying a 12-foot cross around the world since 1969. He has gone into about 280 plus countries, doing what he said God told him to do, which I rather doubt. I doubt it because The Lord never ordered The Church to literally carry a big cross around on wheels, but did say take The Gospel to the people. It’s not the visible showing of a wooden cross that reminds or draws people to Jesus, but the all-powerful Word of God. Personally, I rather think Mr. Blessitt was tricked by the voice of the enemy to do such a duncical thing. Satan makes one do stupid things. The cross represents a dead Jesus Christ who never resurrected, when Jesus did in fact resurrect from the dead. The cross symbol is an accursed tree. The cross is symbolic of Jesus’ humiliating and agonizing death (memento mori” – a reminder of death or mortality, or a reminder that we must die). My questions is, why are we to remember death when Jesus didn’t stay in the grave but resurrected, as we will resurrect. So, you see, Satan tricked Arthur Blessitt into parading around the globe with an accursed symbol all these years, and his relationship with Christ was spiraling downward. He had a wife named Sherry and many children – if my memory serves me right, several children (7?), with one of them being mentally challenged. While carrying that old rugged cross he met an English woman by the name of Denise and obviously had an affair with her. He divorced his wife Sherry in 1990 and married Denise in 1990. At that time he was 49 and Denise was about 29. This was a man leaving the wife of his youth to prove his virility. It was all about “self” and forget about the covenant with God and his wife Sherry and those children. But yet he says, “I just love Jesus.” According to the August 1990 Charisma and Christian Life magazine, “Blessitt said he felt this was God’s will for him at this time [to get the divorce].” God’s will for him to divorce his wife! Please! On Arthur Blessitt’s web site, “Some Thoughts From Arthur” reads: I begin the new century with thrilling excitement. I…have been committed to following Jesus all my life…I love God and I love people….I love to do anything I feel Jesus tell me to do. My thrill is to please my Lord. (www.blessitt.com/news.html). Oh, is that right, Arthur. Arthur, do you really think you are pleasing your Lord in that adulterous relationship with Denise? No! You’re not. God is grieved over the fact that you sinned by breaking the marriage vows with Sherry and now by continuing to live in that adulterous relationship with Denise. Should you visit Mr. Blessitt’s site, you will discern how “full of himself” he is. It’s all about Arthur and what he’s done. On Trinity Broadcasting Network’s September 22, 2000 program, I heard Arthur Blessitt say, I love fallen men and women. What do you suppose he meant by that, being that he’s a fallen man whether he realizes it or not?

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Sandi Patty: The very popular Christian singer had an affair with Don Peslis who was touring with her as one of her backup singers – “all just singing to the glory of God.” Divorced from her husband in 1993, she married her lover in August 1995 that was also divorced. Sandy committed adultery and her first husband John Helvering has the right to remarry and not be considered an adulterer. Sandi, well, she is currently in adultery in her marriage to her lover who also had a wife. Oh, how complicated, you’re perhaps thinking. But it’s not at all. It’s simply adultery – violation of covenant with God and their mates while they carried on their little love affair. In a 1998 Christianity Today article, Sandi is quoted as having said the following: I am in awe. God still loves me! God still loves me. Sandi, God never stopped loving you, but that doesn’t mean He has sanctified your marriage to the man you committed adultery with. The owning, naming, and confessing of the sin in my life was the beginning of experiencing the freedom that only comes through Christ…. Yes, Sandi, that was only the beginning of freedom, but you won’t have total freedom until you come out of that adulterous relationship with Don Peslis, whom you call you husband when he’s not.

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Charles Stanley: The 67 year old pastor of Atlanta’s First Baptist Church was divorced by his wife of 44 years in May 2000. The grounds for the divorce were that the marriage was “irretrievably broken.” Anna Stanley, that’s not found in The Bible as grounds for divorce. In God’s site, there is nothing that cannot be put together again, including Humpty Dumpty. There had to have been something else. But, whatever it was, God knows the truth. (a) If Charles Stanley engaged in “any” kind of sexual act with other than his wife, then she had Biblical grounds for the divorce and Charles Stanley should leave the pulpit because of fornication. (b) If Charles Stanley initiated the divorce but requested the wife to file because it would look bad for him, then Charles Stanley should leave the pulpit because he broke his marriage vows for reasons other than his wife having committed fornication. (c) If Anna divorced Charles Stanley simply because they don’t see eye-to-eye anymore – an “irretrievably broken marriage,” then Charles Stanley should remain in the pulpit, living a life of celibacy, and no dating, until either God restores his marriage or Anna dies. Other well-known household names in the Christian world that are in adulterous relationships are: Amy Grant, Tammy Faye Bakker-Messner, Jim Bakker, Robert Tilton, W.V. Grant, Jr., A.A. Allen (deceased), Larry Lea, and good old self-proclaimed end-time false prophet, R.G. Stair, Prophetess Juanita Bynum-Weeks, Bishop Thomas W. Weeks, III, Bishop Eddie Long and the list goes on.

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The ghastly unacceptable sins of infidelity, divorce continues by the Pastors even:
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Bishop Eddie L. Long “Last week, the wife of Long, founding pastor of New Birth Missionary Baptist Church, filed for a divorce from her husband who has been enmeshed in a series of scandals, including alleged sexual harassment of young male congregants and allegedly being party to a million-dollar Ponzi scheme. Vanessa Long issued a statement Friday, Dec. 2, saying that after “a great deal of deliberation and prayer, I have decided to terminate my marriage to Bishop Eddie L. Long” and that she had authorized her attorneys to do so on Thursday, Dec. 1, according to the Atlanta Journal-Constitution. However, a second statement later that day said Mrs. Long was planning to withdrawn the lawsuit, but the New Birth elder denied she had changed her mind through her lawyer, in a statement released Friday evening by Townsend and Stockton law firm partner Michael W. Tyler, according to the Atlanta Journal-Constitution. The statement reads: “Consistent with her original statement made this morning, Mrs. Long continues to hope that this matter may be resolved expeditiously, harmoniously and fairly; however, she has determined that dismissal of her divorce petition is not appropriate at this time.” Meanwhile, the Atlanta megachurch pastor announced Sunday, Dec. 4 that he would be taking a break from the church to spend time with his family. If the divorce proceedings do indeed go through, this would be Bishop Long’s second divorce. “
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“Benny Hinn’s wife, Suzanne Hinn, filed her divorce papers Feb. 1 2010, after more than 30 years of marriage to the popular televangelist famous for faith-healing sessions that attract crowds of thousands. The Benny Hinn Ministries’ founder’s wife reportedly referred to irreconcilable differences as cause of divorce. The couple previously separated on Jan. 26. “Pastor Benny Hinn and his immediate family were shocked and saddened to learn of this news without any previous notice,” Don Price, a longtime senior adviser to Benny Hinn Ministries, said at the time. “Although Pastor Hinn has faithfully endeavored to bring healing to their relationship, those efforts failed and were met with the petition for divorce that was filed without notice.”  ( BENNY HINN SAYS HIS WIFE WAS ADDICTED TO DRUGS FOR 15 YEARS?  GOD SPEAKS TO BENNY HINN ABOUT OTHERS BUT NEVER ABOUT HIS OWN WIFE AND FAMILY?) Hinn has often been scrutinized by the media over the practice of preaching his miraculous healings and the lavish lifestyle he leads. He travels to cities across the globe conducting “miracle crusades.” At the time of the divorce filing, Hinn was living in a multimillon-dollar home and flying around the world in a leased Gulfstream jet, according to LA Times.”
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“Zachery Tims, the founding pastor of New Destiny Christian Center (NDCC), an Apopka, Fla., megachurch, died in New York City in August. He was married to Riva Tims, who founded the ministry with him in 1996. The couple divorced in 2009, which is when Riva Tims founded Majestic Life Ministries. Zachery Tims, 42, was found dead in a room at the W Hotel in Times Square on Aug 12. As news reports suggest that drugs might have been involved in his death, some observers have been asking whether the popular pastor would have died in such a fashion had he not divorced. It has also been reported that Tims had cheated on his wife for a year with a stripper. Riva Tims honored her late ex-husband during a funeral ceremony attended by Paula White, among other evangelist personalities.“Zachery’s death may have caught us by surprise, but it has not taken God by surprise,” she said at the time in a room packed with church members and supporters.”
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“Randy and Paula White of Without Walls International Church in Tampa, Fla., a popular ministering duo, announced they were planning to divorce in August 2007. They founded the megachurch together in 1991 and one of the questions raised over their divorce was that of the church’s financial stability.The couple, which had been married for nearly 18 years, said at the time the split was amicable. They have both been married and divorced before. They also mentioned that the divorce comes after years of visits to counselors.”It’s the most difficult decision I’ve ever had to make in my entire life,” Randy White told the congregation at the time, with his wife at his side at the podium and appearing choked up, according to Tampa Bay Online.Trouble in the couple’s marriage was picked up by The Tampa Tribune in May 2007 as the two were rarely seen preaching together anymore. Both blamed the two different directions their lives were going in. At some point, it was reported that Paula White had been dating Hinn. White denied it in a service in April. “  http://global.christianpost.com/news/bishop-eddie-long-to-join-list-of-other-high-profile-megachurch-divorces-64323/#ERfz1b8BJwYahPyc.99
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Research from the Marriage and Religion Research Institute shows that while only 8 percent of youth who come from intact married families and attend church each week are likely to use tobacco, alcohol, or marijuana as a minor, this number increases to 18 percent among youth who do not live in an intact married family and never attend church. This effect holds into adulthood as well, for only 24.7 percent of adults in always intact marriages who attend religious services weekly drink too much alcohol, compared to 52.1 percent of adults who do not attend church and are not in an intact marriage.  While the life and formation of each person is far from formulaic, there is much to be said for the protective nature of the family, and the wisdom of Proverbs which admonishes that we “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” http://www.marri.us/
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Divorce and remarriage is rampant amongst Born Again Believers in The Church of Jesus Christ. It is so cancerous that pastors and other leaders in The Church are divorcing their mates, to all appearances, for reasons other than fornication, and obviously think that God forgives them and they then turn around and marry a new mate whom God supposedly has brought their way. These people honestly believe that God okays divorce and remarriage. They think it’s life as usual.
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Using statistics drawn from nationwide survey interviews with nearly 4000 adults….Among born again Christians, 27% are currently or have previously been divorced, compared to 24% among adults who are not born again. (Because of the large sample size involved, that difference is statistically significant)….Surprisingly, the Christian denomination whose adherents have the highest likelihood of getting divorced are Baptists*. Nationally, 29% of all Baptist adults have been divorced. The only Christian group to surpass that level are those associated with non-denominational Protestant churches: 34% of those adults have undergone a divorce*…. (Christianity Today Online. “Christians Are More Likely to Experience Divorce Than Are Non-Christians. December 21, 1999.)
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God joins a man and a woman, He doesn’t separate them; and if a divorce is not permitted according to God’s Word, then the remarriage is not permitted as well. God is in the business of restoring marriages. In a marriage you don’t have to become a cow and jump over the moon for it to work. Simply be obedient to the marriage vows and not only will God bless you but He’ll bless the marriage as well. That’s part of the three-fold covenant (you, your mate, and God). God blesses covenant-keepers or people who keep their vows, and He curses those who don’t, including Born Again Christians. The key to being blessed in marriage is to keep the vows – your word must mean everything to God and to your mate. I repeat the following Scripture: When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed. Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay (Ecclesiastes 5:4-5). Before Jesus said that divorce and remarriage is the sin of adultery (except for fornication), He made it painfully clear that God’s Word on the issue had not softened and will not soften, when He said, it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail (Luke 16:17). The law referenced in that verse of Scripture is not the carnal ordinance of Moses law (Are You Really Not Under The Law?) that were nailed to the cross with Jesus. The Law is God’s Word, His high holy standard – His instructions or His teachings for His people. When it comes to divorcing and remarrying, obey God’s Word only. In His instructions He list fornication as the only grounds for divorce and that’s that. (1) The practice of marriages being annulled or rendered void is not in God’s Word and therefore disallowing annulment as an alternative to divorce. (The only real alternative to divorce is to remain married.) Absolutely no person can say that the marriage bond never existed regardless of the fact that the couple lived as though they were married, which is what annulments declare. Again, annulments are not of God and hence are not recognized by God. (2) For Heaven sake, pay absolutely no attention to the Rabbis of old who wrote in the Talmud that one may divorce his wife if she burned his soup, or even if he finds a prettier woman than she. That goes against God’s Word and is therefore not of God. Pastors and all church leaders who not only win souls to The Lord, but also feed those very same souls, are to be examples of doing God’s will. They are to be examples of righteousness and holiness that equals to obedience to God’s will according to His Word. Jesus was The Church’s example and those in position of Church leadership are compelled to be examples as well by not committing adultery. No one escapes adultery when he or she divorces and remarries; nor when the result of one divorcing a mate and that mate remarries. No one escapes adultery. You in The Church of Jesus Christ, if you are righteous, you will hate lying – hate the lying spirit that is in those who don’t keep their promises. They are covenant breakers and you must keep your distance from them until they get it right with God. But, no, you instead sit under their ministries, invite them to preach and teach in your churches, purchase their recordings, and have them come entertain you. By you doing this, you are supporting their sin and that is a slap in God’s face. It’s a slap in God’s face because you are not taking His Word to heart in judgment of the covenant breakers. Do understand, you are not judging but God and His Word is doing the judging, and all you’re doing is going by His Word which is in you, if it is. You’re so afraid that you might be judging these covenant breakers and not loving them, but when you accept them in their adulterous state, you are not loving God and you’re not loving them because you’re encouraging them to remain in their sin. God forbid! Church of Jesus Christ, it must be put to you bluntly for there is just no other way to say it. When you sit under the ministries of these men and women who divorced their mates for reasons other than fornication, you are supporting them in adultery. Yes, adultery! They are parading before you with a Bible in their dirty hands and Jesus’ name rolling off their filthy lips, and you receive it with an open heart.
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Please understand, if they ever had an anointing upon them, they don’t have it now. It’s gone because of the adulterous state they are in. Those preachers in particular know that God’s Spirit isn’t upon them. So they pretend. They lie as they go through the motions of one with the anointing on him or her. These people are not illiterate. They do their homework and put together a fairly decent sermon. But, it takes more than that. If the Spirit of God is not upon that person delivering the message, it is also not on the message. Saints, these adulterous people are fooling you because you can be fooled. Get tired of being fooled and get from under them. Search out the real stuff! You’re dying and you don’t even know it. Those of you sitting under adulterous leaders, you must question your walk with God. You receive those adulterous leaders because your walk is not right with God. Since your walk is not right with God, you see nothing wrong in what they are doing. These people do not have a godly ministry because of the sin of adultery, and God is not winking at this immorality. That’s it. It’s immoral what these leaders are engaging in, and you are letting the Devil make a fool of you by saying “you’re being judgmental” or “that’s not loving them.” If by using God’s Word to point out sin you are accused of being judgmental, then so be it. Better before God to be accused of such than to be approving of such sin as adultery in The Church. Church, it’s time to get it right.
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Something had to be said about the sin of divorce and remarriage in The Church of Jesus Christ and God impressed upon my spirit to speak forth on the matter that is out of hand. I am not judging in what has been said because I am not in the position to do so. God alone is in the position to judge, which is why I used the Word of God and the natural facts already public knowledge to say what I have had to say in this message. My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, it is God’s Word that is judging, not I. The word to you from The Lord is to cut loose from these ministries whose leaders are in adulterous relationships because He will never have His people sit in a house of sin. stop patronizing those entertainers who are in adultery, even as this is written. When you patronize them you are telling them everything is okay when everything is not okay. These people are exploiting you. stop having those evangelist come into your churches while they are yet in adultery, for they have nothing to feed you but death. If you hated this rebuke, you are foolish. Jesus is purging His Church.” PS: This is also applicable to all of you sitting in the church pews every week while still in adulterous marriages.
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  It seems also that lying, cheating, stealing, adultery, pornography, alcoholism, slander, gossiping, etc.,  is something that  too many pastors also cannot give up on these  days too. They are all going to Hell not Heaven as well..   (Heb 3:10 KJV)  Wherefore I was grieved with that generation, and said, They do alway err in their heart; and they have not known my ways. 11  So I sware in my wrath, They shall not enter into my rest.) 12  Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. 13  But exhort one another daily, while it is called To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin. 14  For we are made partakers of Christ, if we hold the beginning of our confidence stedfast unto the end; (Rev 21:27 KJV)  And there shall in no wise enter into it any thing that defileth, neither whatsoever worketh abomination, or maketh a lie: but they which are written in the Lamb’s book of life. (Rev 22:14 KJV)  Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city. 15  For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie. (1 Cor 6:9 KJV)  Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,10  Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God
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 Some of the reasons that relationships and even marriages fail are unrealistic expectations, greed, lies,  laziness and a spouse has false personal values, false assumptions, -the myth of the greener grass, and also the inability to handle the sheer pace, stress of   life. And for sure sexual infidelity will tend to kill a marriage, be an immediate grounds for a divorce too.

If you still do have a God shaped vacuum that is unfilled, then no other things, no relationships or careers, goals, next will satisfy you, not any personal, social, community relationships..
Note this reality.. like it or not.. believe it or not..
Both fornicators and adulterers are excluded from Heaven. They are pursuing vanities as far as God is concerned..
“Have you not known that the unrighteous the reign of God shall not inherit? Be not led astray; neither whoremongers, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, the reign of God shall inherit. And certain of you were these! But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were declared righteous, in the name of the Lord Jesus, and in the Spirit of our God” (1 Cor 6:9).

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The Marriages that slide downward go through these stages: romance, reality, resentment, unforgiveness – bitterness  and rebellion – divorce.

still excludes the common realty also that bad friends, bad relatives, others do work hard to break up the marriages too….

Key steps that help to break this cycle and to change marriages are for a start…

-First, open your life fully to God. (Luke 6:27). Without God in control of your life these days it is likely your marriage ALSO  next will fail

-Second, follow God’s ways continually. (Ephesians 5:1)

– Honor each other: be faithful and committed, recognize the dignity and special worth of all others, admire, affirm and celebrate each other, and avoid continual fault-finding.

Our personal beliefs and feelings toward people tend to follow what we believe about them. A judgment is MY interpretation of someone’s life at a point in time, it still doesn’t give the whole picture and becomes a label by which I narrowly view and interpret that person. What are some reasons some people too often “put-down” or judge  others rather than affirm, accept them with Christ’s unconditional love? They firstly do not have the real love themselves. They likely come from troubled, divorced homes or are in a troubled marriage, home.

“A love that cherishes is patient and kind (1 Cor. 13:4). To be patient means “to take a long time to boil” and is the opposite of rudeness and irritability. Patience celebrates  our strengths and validates our uniqueness. Kindness involves being gentle, sensitive, considerate, thoughtful and helpful to make life easier for the other person.

Love delights…

Such love enjoys giving attention to the other, spending time together. (Eccl. 9:9) Such love enjoys expressing affection to the other, including sexual intimacy for those who are married.(1 Corinthians 7:2-5). Such love enjoys growing spiritually with the other, together opening our lives to God  and praying, together getting to know Him better and together following His ways.

(2 Peter 3:18).

“How incredible it would be if in all of our relationships–with God, with our husbands and wives, with our families and with our friends–we could experience great delight!” (Schorr Line, May 29, 2009) Centre Street Church is affiliated with the Evangelical Missionary Church of Canada  http://www.cschurch.ca/

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Have you not read what has been said in the Bible still

(Matthew 19:1 KJV)    And it came to pass, that when Jesus had finished these sayings, he departed from Galilee, and came into the coasts of Judaea beyond Jordan; 2  And great multitudes followed him; and he healed them there. 3  The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? 4  And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, 5  And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 6  Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 7  They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? 8  He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. 9  And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. 10  His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. 11  But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. 12  For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.

Do see also

http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/12/24/why-the-high-divorce-rates/

http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/11/23/biblical-divorce/

While it is absolutely true that the love of Jesus for us, in that while we were yet sinners, he loved us and forgives, is  the biggest personal drawing force to God.. one of the saddest realization of mine next in real life is that half of the once loudly professing Christians will depart from real  faith next due to a variety of false reasons, such as the false pursuit of riches, being seduced, incomplete repentance, false denial of one sins.. etc., finally thus they are unwilling to pay the actual  price, to take up their cross and to follow  fully after God .
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Now about tithing…
1/7 of the tithe collected by the priests was to be disbursed to the local poor people, the new testament equivalent of the churches weekly distribution to the poor persons,  and how many of these church pastors who try to enforce tithing today keep even this obligations? Almost none and why was that? Greed.. http://anyonecare.wordpress.com/2008/05/29/the-ttihe/
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and it should not come as a surprise to you that if the Mothers are unfaithful,  liars, so are the children next too…
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Deceived

The Human mind is very deceptive, so is the related human logic and the rather twisted incomplete reasoning data we have tends to make it worse, and this is really all because part of the corrupted, fallen human nature resulting when Adam and Eve Sinned..

Thus even today Man, sadly many bad pastors do take the very simple clear Bible verses and try to twist them to their false lusts. Simple clearly verses made by Jesus even like these ones..

(Mark 10:9 KJV) What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. 11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. 12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.

How clearly can it be? and yet next like Eve’s temptation in the garden of Eden

(Prov 16:25 KJV) There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

Man to often still tries to do away with God’s laws on marriage and no divorce and wrongfully.. Unhappy supposedly Christian spouses want to divorce and also want to remarry.,, cannot accept the will of God laid out for them, or God for that matter in reality.. a false Sexual Lust is part of the main problem.. but also more of a real lack of faith in God.. even a lack of faith in (Rom 8:28 KJV) And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose… That means now your bad marriage or your past divorce as well..

The real lack of faith in God causes these people to wrongfully consider alternative explanations, approach to God’s ways? Sound familiar.. remind you now of Abraham and his wife Sarah? where Sarah added a human approach wrongfully to God’s way, will.

(Gen 16:1 KJV) Now Sarai Abram’s wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was Hagar.2 And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai.

Sarah lived to regret her wrong humanistic approach as well..

(Gen 16:4 KJV) And he went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes. 5 And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong be upon thee: I have given my maid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her eyes: the LORD judge between me and thee.

God next returned Abraham to God’s will, through his original wife as well.

(Gen 17:15 KJV) And God said unto Abraham, As for Sarai thy wife, thou shalt not call her name Sarai, but Sarah shall her name be.16 And I will bless her, and give thee a son also of her: yea, I will bless her, and she shall be a mother of nations; kings of people shall be of her.

God has a good reasons for all of us obeying his laws on marriage and no divorce now too…

(Rom 11:33 KJV) O the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments, and his ways past finding out! 34 For who hath known the mind of the Lord? or who hath been his counsellor? 35 Or who hath first given to him, and it shall be recompensed unto him again? 36 For of him, and through him, and to him, are all things: to whom be glory for ever. Amen.

(Mal 2:15 KJV) And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.16 For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously. 17 Ye have wearied the LORD with your words. Yet ye say, Wherein have we wearied him? When ye say, Every one that doeth evil is good in the sight of the LORD, and he delighteth in them; or, Where is the God of judgment?

Like so many other Biblical doctrines, social issues man mostly still perverts them.. that includes the topic of divorce too.. because of unbelief in God and lust too..

Now I have validly made up my mind on the subject by doing a very thorough bible study of the topic.. but if you were to next read many other persons views they are so contradictory even amongst each other.. and I said God do I have to God now even deal with all of this time consuming, conflicting presentations now again on the subject of divorce and remarriage?

And I was next surprised by God’s quick answer, his voice to me directly.. “I hate divorce” and I have personally told you that clearly before too.. and ” I also hate, strongly dislike, oppose any Minister who counsels divorce”.. well that was a quick and simple study..

and when anyone deviates from God’s marriage standard they become a deviate.. a pervert.. Ministers of Justice, Prime Ministers, Presidents and this deviation leads to more and more social problems, social conflicts and not less.. you had started on a very downhill rocky, rough road when you became a deviate, a pervert.

(Rom 1:16 KJV) For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek. 17 For therein is the righteousness of God revealed from faith to faith: as it is written, The just shall live by faith. 18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness; 19 Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath showed it unto them. 20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse: 21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened. 22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, 23 And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things. 24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: 25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

(2 Pet 2:18 KJV) For when they speak great swelling words of vanity, they allure through the lusts of the flesh, through much wantonness, those that were clean escaped from them who live in error. 19 While they promise them liberty, they themselves are the servants of corruption: for of whom a man is overcome, of the same is he brought in bondage. 20 For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning. 21 For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them. 22 But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire.

An immoral person had sent me an offer to purchase his useless book on the Christian’s right of divorce and remarriage. He said a second marriage was often better than the first.. He is clearly a learned deceiver, unbeliever in God, he does work for the devil.. I rightfully replied to him that I did not need more toilet paper I had enough, and I also rightfully told him I did not need someone to lie to me as to what was in the Bible for I do regularly read the Bible for myself. I also told him that I do not need to read a book written by a hireling prostitute. He is using the book to conduct seminars.. Yes I do rightfully have a problem and so should we all with the so called but still very immoral Christians persons, rather thieves who are still trying to make money from the Gospel, Bibles, tapes, videos, Books, seminars now as well. So should we all.

My material on divorce, remarriage is all available freely on the Internet..

Furthermore God has the last 30 years supplied all of my needs for His Ministry readily, I have never asked anyone for money for His Ministry.. and only false prophets like this false Minister do ask for and take early earthly monetary rewards for supposedly serving God. I also told this false Minister that God and Jesus spoke to me but it was very clear not to him.. for this Minister he does not really know God, Jesus or the Bible’s actual teachings..

Needless to say he was very upset at me.. and replied and said to me that I needed to repent for being unloving and unforgiving towards divorced persons..

but I am really still also sure he does not even know what the word “repent” means. It really means saying to God, God I have sinned, I have not obeyed your very clear commandments in the Bible for a start too even on being married only to one wife and no divorce, I will now obey them and please forgive me for not doing so before. Now let God lead you as to what the right thing is for you to do next as well.. are you a Christian Divorced from a Christian spouse? then you have no right to a remarriage still till your spouse dies.. Not my rule, but God’s.

(1 John 1:9 KJV) If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:10 KJV) If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.

(Eccl 6:1 KJV) There is an evil which I have seen under the sun, and it is common among men: 2 A man to whom God hath given riches, wealth, and honour, so that he wanteth nothing for his soul of all that he desireth, yet God giveth him not the power to eat thereof, but a stranger eateth it: this is vanity, and it is an evil disease. 3 If a man beget an hundred children, and live many years, so that the days of his years be many, and his soul be not filled with good, and also that he have no burial; I say, that an untimely birth is better than he. 4 For he cometh in with vanity, and departeth in darkness, and his name shall be covered with darkness. 5 Moreover he hath not seen the sun, nor known any thing: this hath more rest than the other. 6 Yea, though he live a thousand years twice told, yet hath he seen no good: do not all go to one place? 7 All the labour of man is for his mouth, and yet the appetite is not filled. 8 For what hath the wise more than the fool? what hath the poor, that knoweth to walk before the living? 9 Better is the sight of the eyes than the wandering of the desire: this is also vanity and vexation of spirit. 10 That which hath been is named already, and it is known that it is man: neither may he contend with him that is mightier than he. 11 Seeing there be many things that increase vanity, what is man the better? 12 For who knoweth what is good for man in this life, all the days of his vain life which he spendeth as a shadow? for who can tell a man what shall be after him under the sun?

My first personal encounter directly with a really immoral politician was a lawyer Brian, where I even witnessed firsthand how he lied, allowed immoral acts be committed to win at all costs, to thus get elected as a member of the provincial legislature.. Brian he desperately wanted to win at all costs, to become also next a cabinet minister.. I also remember how I complained to God as to why he had allowed all of this to occur that I saw.. he allowed Brian to be elected too.. God instead told me at that time that Brian would get the position he wanted, but it would not go next as he had now planned, envisaged for God alone would determine what work he next would get.. and he wouldn’t get the nice, easy, good work.. but the real bad and hard stuff.. Brian the bad Minister next ran into a lot of personal on the job conflicts with the citizens too, eventually even with the Premier of the Province, and is no longer into politics.. his political career and glory days were ended, short lived… not as glamorous he had first expected it would be.. his bad reputation will follow him too now.

(Psa 75:6 KJV) For promotion cometh neither from the east, nor from the west, nor from the south.

(Psa 75:7 KJV) But God is the judge: he putteth down one, and setteth up another.

(Psa 75:8 KJV) For in the hand of the LORD there is a cup, and the wine is red; it is full of mixture; and he poureth out of the same: but the dregs thereof, all the wicked of the earth shall wring them out, and drink them.

(Psa 75:9 KJV) But I will declare for ever; I will sing praises to the God of Jacob.

(Psa 75:10 KJV) All the horns of the wicked also will I cut off; but the horns of the righteous shall be exalted.

(Psa 20:1 KJV) The LORD hear thee in the day of trouble; the name of the God of Jacob defend thee; 2 Send thee help from the sanctuary, and strengthen thee out of Zion; 3 Remember all thy offerings, and accept thy burnt sacrifice; Selah.4 Grant thee according to thine own heart, and fulfil all thy counsel.

(Psa 20:5 KJV) We will rejoice in thy salvation, and in the name of our God we will set up our banners: the LORD fulfil all thy petitions.

(Psa 20:6 KJV) Now know I that the LORD saveth his anointed; he will hear him from his holy heaven with the saving strength of his right hand.

(Psa 20:7 KJV) Some trust in chariots, and some in horses: but we will remember the name of the LORD our God.

(Psa 20:8 KJV) They are brought down and fallen: but we are risen, and stand upright.

(Psa 20:9 KJV) Save, LORD: let the king hear us when we call.

(Psa 21:1 KJV) The king shall joy in thy strength, O LORD; and in thy salvation how greatly shall he rejoice!

(Hosea 8: KJV) 1 Set the trumpet to thy mouth. He shall come as an eagle against the house of the LORD, because they have transgressed my covenant, and trespassed against my law.

(Hosea 8: KJV) 2 Israel shall cry unto me, My God, we know thee.

(Hosea 8: KJV) 3 Israel hath cast off the thing that is good: the enemy shall pursue him. 4 They have set up kings, but not by me: they have made princes, and I knew it not: of their silver and their gold have they made them idols, that they may be cut off.

(Hosea 8: KJV) 5 Thy calf, O Samaria, hath cast thee off; mine anger is kindled against them: how long will it be ere they attain to innocency? 6 For from Israel was it also: the workman made it; therefore it is not God: but the calf of Samaria shall be broken in pieces. 7 For they have sown the wind, and they shall reap the whirlwind: it hath no stalk: the bud shall yield no meal: if so be it yield, the strangers shall swallow it up.

(Hosea 8: KJV) 8 Israel is swallowed up: now shall they be among the Gentiles as a vessel wherein is no pleasure. 9 For they are gone up to Assyria, a wild ass alone by himself: Ephraim hath hired lovers. 10 Yea, though they have hired among the nations, now will I gather them, and they shall sorrow a little for the burden of the king of princes. 11 Because Ephraim hath made many altars to sin, altars shall be unto him to sin. 12 I have written to him the great things of my law, but they were counted as a strange thing. 13 They sacrifice flesh for the sacrifices of mine offerings, and eat it; but the LORD accepteth them not; now will he remember their iniquity, and visit their sins: they shall return to Egypt. 14 For Israel hath forgotten his Maker, and buildeth temples; and Judah hath multiplied fenced cities: but I will send a fire upon his cities, and it shall devour the palaces thereof.

(Hosea 9: KJV) 1 Rejoice not, O Israel, for joy, as other people: for thou hast gone a whoring from thy God, thou hast loved a reward upon every cornfloor. 2 The floor and the winepress shall not feed them, and the new wine shall fail in her. 3 They shall not dwell in the LORD’S land; but Ephraim shall return to Egypt, and they shall eat unclean things in Assyria. 4 They shall not offer wine offerings to the LORD, neither shall they be pleasing unto him: their sacrifices shall be unto them as the bread of mourners; all that eat thereof shall be polluted: for their bread for their soul shall not come into the house of the LORD. 5 What will ye do in the solemn day, and in the day of the feast of the LORD? 6 For, lo, they are gone because of destruction: Egypt shall gather them up, Memphis shall bury them: the pleasant places for their silver, nettles shall possess them: thorns shall be in their tabernacles. 7 The days of visitation are come, the days of recompense are come; Israel shall know it: the prophet is a fool, the spiritual man is mad, for the multitude of thine iniquity, and the great hatred.

(Hosea 8: KJV) 8 The watchman of Ephraim was with my God: but the prophet is a snare of a fowler in all his ways, and hatred in the house of his God. 9 They have deeply corrupted themselves, as in the days of Gibeah: therefore he will remember their iniquity, he will visit their sins. 10 I found Israel like grapes in the wilderness; I saw your fathers as the firstripe in the fig tree at her first time: but they went to Baalpeor, and separated themselves unto that shame; and their abominations were according as they loved.

(Hosea 8: KJV) 11 As for Ephraim, their glory shall fly away like a bird, from the birth, and from the womb, and from the conception. 12 Though they bring up their children, yet will I bereave them, that there shall not be a man left: yea, woe also to them when I depart from them! 13 Ephraim, as I saw Tyrus, is planted in a pleasant place: but Ephraim shall bring forth his children to the murderer. 14 Give them, O LORD: what wilt thou give? give them a miscarrying womb and dry breasts. 15 All their wickedness is in Gilgal: for there I hated them: for the wickedness of their doings I will drive them out of mine house, I will love them no more: all their princes are revolters. 16 Ephraim is smitten, their root is dried up, they shall bear no fruit: yea, though they bring forth, yet will I slay even the beloved fruit of their womb. 17 My God will cast them away, because they did not hearken unto him: and they shall be wanderers among the nations.

(Hosea 8: KJV) 10:1 Israel is an empty vine, he bringeth forth fruit unto himself: according to the multitude of his fruit he hath increased the altars; according to the goodness of his land they have made goodly images. 2 Their heart is divided; now shall they be found faulty: he shall break down their altars, he shall spoil their images.

There are still too many professing Christian who rather than trusting in God are wrongfully trusting in their own self, how great they supposedly are, as to how great their idols of ancestry, wisdom, denominations, education, postions, wealth are…

Trust in the lord and lean not to they own understanding..
(Jer 10:23 KJV) O LORD, I know that the way of man is not in himself: it is not in man that walketh to direct his steps.

(Jer 10:24 KJV) O LORD, correct me, but with judgment; not in thine anger, lest thou bring me to nothing.

(Jer 10:25 KJV) Pour out thy fury upon the heathen that know thee not, and upon the families that call not on thy name: for they have eaten up Jacob, and devoured him, and consumed him, and have made his habitation desolate.

I HAVE SAID IT BEFORE, HUMAN LOGIC IS TOO OFTEN CONTRARY TO GOD’S WAY because it has been corrupted by our sinful nature, our human limitations .. Thus we are too often sincerely wrong..

The most accurate means of personal guidance is God’s word for us.. it will correct our path, guide us.. if we read it.

(Psa 119:105 KJV) Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.

(Prov 14:12 KJV) There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

(Psa 19:14 KJV) Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.
(Ezek 33:31 KJV) And they come unto thee as the people cometh, and they sit before thee as my people, and they hear thy words, but they will not do them: for with their mouth they show much love, but their heart goeth after their covetousness.

(Psa 55:21 KJV) The words of his mouth were smoother than butter, but war was in his heart: his words were softer than oil, yet were they drawn swords.

This verse clearly describes my past relations with the many mostly bad, poor pastors and governmental Ministers that I have met, dealt with in Canada..

(Psa 55:1 KJV) Give ear to my prayer, O God; and hide not thyself from my supplication. 2 Attend unto me, and hear me: I mourn in my complaint, and make a noise; 3 Because of the voice of the enemy, because of the oppression of the wicked: for they cast iniquity upon me, and in wrath they hate me.

While next the pastor, Minister would run to the back of the church service to shake hands with the people leaving the church service, pretend mostly to be nice and kind, friendly to them, me included, I would next find out rather that they would even steal, lie, gossip about and slander the people even in their own churches during the week, even wrongfully counsel divorce, refuse to help the poor and needy persons.. plan to do more wrong as well.

(Psa 55:9 KJV) Destroy, O Lord, and divide their tongues: for I have seen violence and strife in the city.10 Day and night they go about it upon the walls thereof: mischief also and sorrow are in the midst of it.11 Wickedness is in the midst thereof: deceit and guile depart not from her streets.

Now why where they so bad? because they were, were merely hireling prostituting themselves for the money, prestige, recognition and they were not true servants of God..

(Psa 55:12 KJV) For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me; then I would have hid myself from him: 14 But it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance.14 We took sweet counsel together, and walked unto the house of God in company. 15 Let death seize upon them, and let them go down quick into hell: for wickedness is in their dwellings, and among them.
I would often rightfully pray change them or take them away.. many were fired next..

(Psa 55:16 KJV) As for me, I will call upon God; and the LORD shall save me.

(Psa 55:16 KJV) As for me, I will call upon God; and the LORD shall save me.17 Evening, and morning, and at noon, will I pray, and cry aloud: and he shall hear my voice.18 He hath delivered my soul in peace from the battle that was against me: for there were many with me.

(Psa 55:19 KJV) God shall hear, and afflict them, even he that abide of old. Selah. Because they have no changes, therefore they fear not God.

(Psa 55:20 KJV) He hath put forth his hands against such as be at peace with him: he hath broken his covenant.21 The words of his mouth were smoother than butter, but war was in his heart: his words were softer than oil, yet were they drawn swords.

Sadly I do still have to pray for God to deal with he too many wicked,bad pastors even governmental Ministers now in Canada..

(Psa 55:22 KJV) Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.

(Psa 55:23 KJV) But thou, O God, shalt bring them down into the pit of destruction: bloody and deceitful men shall not live out half their days; but I will trust in thee.
(Jer 18:6 KJV) O house of Israel, cannot I do with you as this potter? saith the LORD. Behold, as the clay is in the potter’s hand, so are ye in mine hand, O house of Israel.7 At what instant I shall speak concerning a nation, and concerning a kingdom, to pluck up, and to pull down, and to destroy it;8 If that nation, against whom I have pronounced, turn from their evil, I will repent of the evil that I thought to do unto them. 9 And at what instant I shall speak concerning a nation, and concerning a kingdom, to build and to plant it; 10 If it do evil in my sight, that it obey not my voice, then I will repent of the good, wherewith I said I would benefit them. 11 Now therefore go to, speak to the men of Judah, and to the inhabitants of Jerusalem, saying, Thus saith the LORD; Behold, I frame evil against you, and devise a device against you: return ye now every one from his evil way, and make your ways and your doings good.

(Jer 18:12 KJV) And they said, There is no hope: but we will walk after our own devices, and we will every one do the imagination of his evil heart.

I had also now written and said that many spouses have filed for divorce cause they firstly did not have an adequate relationship with God, they did not have a real faith in God, they were thus mostly following their wicked reasons, sinful lusts, desire to have more sex, money, material things too..

(Prov 16:25 KJV) There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

“Man too often still tries to do away with God’s laws on marriage and to do away with God’s laws of no divorce and wrongfully.. Unhappy supposedly Christian spouses even in evangelcial Chruches wrongfully want to divorce but also want to remarry, for they wrongfully cannot accept the will of God laid out for them, or God for that matter in reality.. a false sexual lust is part of the main problem.. but also more it is a real personal lack of faith in God.. even a lack of faith in (Rom 8:28 KJV) And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose… and that now means now your supposedly bad marriage or your past divorce now as well..

The real lack of faith in God causes these people to wrongfully consider alternative explanations, alternative approaches to God’s ways? Sound very familiar.. dioes it now remind of Abraham and his wife Sarah? where Sarah had added a human approach wrongfully to God’s way, will.. to get a son !

(Gen 16:1 KJV) Now Sarai Abram’s wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was Hagar.2 And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai.

Sarah next lived to regret her wrong humanistic approach as well to God’s plan, will..

(Gen 16:4 KJV) And he( Abraham) went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes. 5 And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong be upon thee: I have given my maid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her eyes: the LORD judge between me and thee.

God next returned Abraham to God’s original will, for Abrham to have a son through his original wife as well.

(Gen 17:15 KJV) And God said unto Abraham, As for Sarai thy wife, thou shalt not call her name Sarai, but Sarah shall her name be.16 And I will bless her, and give thee a son also of her: yea, I will bless her, and she shall be a mother of nations; kings of people shall be of her.

I can remember about 20 years ago when I too was working too hard to become a wealthy engineer, and when a pastor had asked me my opinion of having a ministry to the divorcées in the church.. I next told him they were not a significant group, there was no need for it.. in truth I had no understanding as to why so many people wrongfully filed for divorce, I did not really even know what they Bible said about it too.. I was really not interested in becoming a full time pastor of God’s flock myself. I had other plans for my life and God had other plans.. God had even known that my working hard to get rich was leading to my own major heart problems even a major heart attack.. I would die also very shortly if God would not directly intervene.

(1 Tim 6:17 KJV) Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy;18 That they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate;19 Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life. 20 O Timothy, keep that which is committed to thy trust, avoiding profane and vain babblings, and oppositions of science falsely so called:21 Which some professing have erred concerning the faith. Grace be with thee. Amen.

Speaking of Romans 8:28 again.. all things work for our good.. I too would have never, never, nver had agreed on my own to become a full time pastor to serve the Lord Jesus Christ .. and when God asked me to too I had already refused..so three weeks later my wife filed wrongfully for divorce, and she salso next stole my 3 children.. and God said to me ” look after my children and I will look after yours”.. eventually I would fully surrender to God’s will for my life, and agree to be His servant, His shepherd of the flock..

(2 Cor 1:3 KJV) Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; 4 Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.

and thus I was even next able to have time also to realy firstahnd read the Bible, to see firsthand what the Bible really said on all kind of topics now too and thus next to have a rightful honest Biblical understanding of divorce and I am able to counsel divorcees with God truths and not rather based on man’s distorted lies, based mostly on their own wrong lusts.. or other men’s false teachings.

(James 4:1 KJV) From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members? 2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. 3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts. 4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

(Acts 20 KJV) 20 And how I kept back nothing that was profitable unto you, but have showed you, and have taught you publicly, and from house to house, 21 Testifying both to the Jews, and also to the Greeks, repentance toward God, and faith toward our Lord Jesus Christ. 22 And now, behold, I go bound in the spirit unto Jerusalem, not knowing the things that shall befall me there: 23 Save that the Holy Ghost witnesseth in every city, saying that bonds and afflictions abide me. 24 But none of these things move me, neither count I my life dear unto myself, so that I might finish my course with joy, and the ministry, which I have received of the Lord Jesus, to testify the gospel of the grace of God. 25 And now, behold, I know that ye all, among whom I have gone preaching the kingdom of God, shall see my face no more. 26 Wherefore I take you to record this day, that I am pure from the blood of all men. 27 For I have not shunned to declare unto you all the counsel of God. 28 Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood. 29 For I know this, that after my departing shall grievous wolves enter in among you, not sparing the flock. 30 Also of your own selves shall men arise, speaking perverse things, to draw away disciples after them. 31 Therefore watch, and remember, that by the space of three years I ceased not to warn every one night and day with tears. 32 And now, brethren, I commend you to God, and to the word of his grace, which is able to build you up, and to give you an inheritance among all them which are sanctified. 33 I have coveted no man’s silver, or gold, or apparel. 34 Yea, ye yourselves know, that these hands have ministered unto my necessities, and to them that were with me. 35 I have showed you all things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive. 36 And when he had thus spoken, he kneeled down, and prayed with them all. 37 And they all wept sore, and fell on Paul’s neck, and kissed him, 38 Sorrowing most of all for the words which he spake, that they should see his face no more. And they accompanied him unto the ship.

My father had said to me that he prays that he would win millions of dollars, and next he would give the money to the church. I told him that God does not need your money to build any churches he God firstly still wants to live in your heart dad, that is God’s first church building priority!